Have you held the door open lately?

HAVE YOU HELD THE DOOR OPEN LATELY?”  (1 Cor. 11:17-34 )

Rev. Jeremy Stopford, Semi-retired pastor 

INTRODUCTION    Today’s “Special”:  “A Necktie Funny”:

A guy goes into a fancy lounge wearing a shirt open at the collar, but the bouncer tells him he needs a necktie to get in.

The guy doesn’t have a necktie handy, so goes out to his car and gets his jumper cables. He ties these around his neck, manages to fashion a fairly acceptable looking knot, and lets the ends dangle free.

He goes back to the lounge.  The bouncer looks him up & down and then says, “Well, OK, I guess you can come in – just don’t start anything.”

The communion service is a familiar service. 1 Corinthians 11 was written because Paul saw that its use in Corinth – in the church – was being abused. Is it possible that it is too familiar? What warnings and encouragements will we find for us and our church in this passage? PRAYER

#1THEY WERE TOGETHER, BUT NOT ALL TOGETHER (vs. 17-22)

*  V. 17 sets the tone:  “I do not praise you” – and Paul is talking about the Lord’s Supper!  And he closes in v. 22 with “I do not praise you.”!

*  Note the use of these negative words:  “divisions” (v. 18); “factions” (v. 19)

*  What was the problem?  The people of the church at Corinth were more concerned about their position in the church than they were about their position in Christ

Note v. 21 “ahead of others”.  Apparently there was a fellowship meal surrounding their enjoying the Lord’s table.  And who got what, and how much, and who sat where, was more important than who was there.

And who are those at the meal?

Illus.:  Pastor Ray Stedman, in commenting on Psalm 107, said that God has placed in every heart two needs.  He calls this the fruit of “city seeking”:

“Then they cried out to the LORD in their trouble, and he delivered them from their distress. He led them by a straight way to a city where they could settle” (Psalm 107:6-7)…

“A city is always characterized by two qualities: excitement and security…

We are told how they find satisfaction: “Then they cried out to the LORD in their trouble, and he delivered them from their distress. He led them by a straight way to a city where they could settle” (Psalm 107:6-7). Some of you have had this experience. You too were restless; you were uncertain, wandering, hungry, and thirsty for life, but you could never find it. You tried everything. Finally, when you reached the bottom, you cried to the Lord in your trouble. When you did, He heard you. Not suddenly or instantaneously, but gradually, He began to set you free. He began to lead you “by a straight way.” God delivers those in this condition by leading them in a straight way. They have been wandering circuitously, deviously; now they start going straight. That is the way described in the Scripture. It is a straight way, right through the middle of life. God leads them until they find a city to dwell in, until they reach the place of excitement and security.”

*  So… when we come to the communion table, are we conscious that we are together and all together – one body?

Maybe the oneness of the body should be our prayer!

#2  THEY WERE THINKING, BUT NOT ABOUT JESUS (vs. 23-26)

How do we know that?  Paul reminded them of the words of the Lord Jesus

at the Last Supper:  “in remembrance of Me” was a call to partake of the elements of the Lord’s Table with a focus on the One Who only deserves our focus.

It was possible then NOT to be focused on Him!

*  What were they focused on?  The intent of v. 26 is that they have an eternal focus, and more than likely their focus was on today only

Who is our focus on today – Jesus only, or on things and stuff?

#3  THEY WERE WAITING, BUT NOT FOR ONE ANOTHER (vs. 27-34

*  There are 3 important words here. 

Word #1 is “together” (vs. 17,18,20,33,34)

Word #2 is “another” (vs. 21, 33)

Word #3 is “wait” (v. 33)

*  These words imply oneness and caring.  Even at the Lord’s Table, there is to be a oneness and not simply a routine.

CONCLUSION 

Illustration.:  Back in the fall of 1998, my wife and I took several old storm windows down to a shop in Norwich where the owner offered for me to drop them off.  After we unloaded the car, I walked around and held open the passenger door for my wife while she situated herself in the car.  Unknown to me, the store owner had observed all this.  She said, “you’ve been married for a long time, haven’t you?”.  “25 years July 6”.  The truth was, I used to open all doors for her when we first started courting some 26 years earlier.  But after the honeymoon, the routine fizzled out.  Sometime before our 25th, I said to myself, “I’m going to surprise her and on our 25th anniversary vacation I’m going to start holding doors open for her.”  What did that do?  Well, it DID make me look good.  But it also encouraged our oneness as husband and wife.

What is Paul encouraging us to do during the communion?  Hold the door!  Hold the plate for one another!  That will cause us to see oneness and not just ourselves!

CLOSE IN PRAYER

WHAT’S THE CHEESE IN YOUR TRAP?

Week Six, 2019

WHAT’S THE CHEESE IN YOUR TRAP?

And take these ten cheeses to the commanding officer. Find out how your brothers are getting along and bring back something to show that you saw them and that they are well. —Samuel 17:18

The acorns are falling and the rats are crawling. They have taken residence in our garage attic and found a way to get down to the main floor, where they have raised havoc on some bags of wild bird seed.

In need of a way to evict them, I went online and ordered three rat traps and after baiting them with cheese retired for the night to let them do their work. Each morning I go into the garage to view the night’s catch. I keep trapping and they keep coming.

Life is like that. There are traps everywhere and often baited attractively, but when you take the bait, the trap snaps faster than you can run away.

Satan is the greatest trapper of all. Our path of life is strewn with his good-looking traps. John Bevere’s book The Bait of Satan has sold nearly a million copies. His bait is often very tempting, but what looks good on the outside can crush you on the inside.

Have you ever fallen into a trap laid by Satan? The truth is that all of us have at some point fallen victim to the devil’s schemes, so how can we better protect ourselves? How can we recognize the temptations and deceit of Satan, so that we can be prepared to ward off his advances and stand courageous and faithful with God?

Satan constantly tries to catch us. But he is not always like a hunter who kills the animals he catches. What the Devil really wants to do when he catches someone is to make that person do what he wants. A trapper may use different snares, or traps, to catch an animal. He may start a fire to get the animal out of its hiding place so that it becomes easier to catch it. Or he may catch the animal by using a noose. He may also use a trap that he has hidden. The animal touches it and is crushed. Satan also uses traps to catch God’s servants. If we do not want to get caught, we must be alert and pay attention to the warning signs that help us to know where Satan’s traps are.

The best place is to start with the Word. If you are daily in the Word, you are far less likely to fall into the snares of Satan’s traps. The Word not only assures us of Jesus’ constant presence in the lives of His followers, but it gives us practical advice as well. Avoid situations and people that lead to sin. Certain people, places, and situations make sinning easy. Get help.

You don’t need to fight your temptations alone.

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SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

Rider University in New Jersey recently asked students what fast-food restaurant they would like to see on campus. Once it became clear that Chick-fil-A was their choice, the school’s leaders excluded this option, citing concerns over the company’s alleged attitudes toward the LGBTQ community.

BIG NEWS!

Did you see the big news? Scientists recently completed a massive study of genetic “bar codes” and were shocked to discover that all human beings are descended from two people. They could have saved time and money by just reading Chapter 1 of Genesis.

Rubber Duckie

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

We need to count her blessed as the Mother of our incarnate Lord. But let’s be careful not to put her on a pedestal that neither she, nor Jesus would approve of. —John Piper

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.'” – Matthew 22:37-40 NIV

Finally, this chapter aims to persuade you that there is almost nothing more important we can do for our young than convince them that production is more satisfying than consumption. Indeed, a hallmark of virtuous adulthood is learning to find freedom in your work, rather than freedom from your work, even when work hurts.

THE CROWN

THE CROWN

Week Five, 2019

Be faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life. Rev. 2:10

Recently at my check-up, my dentist told me I needed a crown, so I made an appointment. He ground away most of my teeth and then I was amazed at the next step. He put a small camera in my mouth which showed on the computer monitor as he built a 3d color picture and then he proceeded to “build” a crown image on the computer.

The next step fascinated me as he placed a small block of porcelain in a small machine which in full view physically built the crown in six minutes. Then it had to bake thirty minutes while I sipped on some coffee and read my email. Then the new crown was ready to install and cement in place. Then I was done.

Same day service for a crown. That is almost instantaneous. How can you beat that? Well Jesus can as we accept Him and instantaneously receive the crown of life.

Jesus references this crown when he tells the Church in Smyrna to “not be afraid of what you are about to suffer…Be faithful even to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life.”

Eternal life is a free gift to everyone and anyone who believes in Jesus for it. You do not have to work your way to eternal life. Eternal life cannot be earned or kept by good works. The Crown of Life, however, is a reward for special acts of service and perseverance under trial.

The Crown of Life is a special reward for a special act of service and dedication to the King. So if you are experiencing severe temptation, trials, or persecution, be encouraged and persevere through them.

Just as a runner perseveres through the difficulties of the race so that he reaches the finish line and receives the reward, Jesus wants to put the Crown of Life upon your head when you reach the finish line after persevering through pain, trials, and persecution.

By offering this Crown, Jesus encourages us to stay strong, keep the course, and remain faithful, no matter what trials we face.

Keep your eyes on Jesus and serve him until you finish the race of earthly life.

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SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

The Unchurched Next Door

1. 10% Highly Receptive to the Gospel

2. 27% Receptive to the Gospel

3. 36% Neutral to the Gospel

4. 21% Resistant to the Gospel

5. 5% Hostile to the Gospel

According to the A. C. Nielsen Company, the most esteemed media research group in the world, the typical American logs more than five hours in front of the TV every single day. In case you’re not a fan of math, I’ll do the calculating for you: That’s thirty-five hours a week, or seventy-seven days a year of uninterrupted idiot box watching. If Average Andy manages to keep up that prolific couch potato pace until he is eighty, he will have spent more than thirteen years of his life glued to the tube.

According to a Barna study, 64 percent of Americans think pro athletes have more influence in society than pastors.

Americans spend $100 billion on sports each year.

In 1965 less than 10 percent of college students said they “never” attend any religious services, compared to nearly 30 percent today. The Pew Research Center’s Michael Lipka reported that about 35 percent of adult millennials (born between 1981 and 1996) identify as atheist, agnostic, or “nothing in particular.” Far more Millennials say they have no religious affiliation compared with those who identify as evangelical Protestants (21%), Catholics (16%) or mainline Protestants (11%)

Working!

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to have. —Socrates

Our God Is Able To Do Far More Abundantly Beyond All That We Ask

Bring your most daring petition, bring your most impossible requests, add others to them; let the whole church join together in their wildest desires and demands. There is no danger of exceeding the limits, His power is beyond all that we can ever ask. Martyn Lloyd Jones

God in His sovereignty has chosen to accomplish His mission through His church as they give, pray, love, serve, and go.

Some people should use a glue stick rather than a chapstick.

I haven’t lost my mind. Half of it wandered off and the other half is out looking for it.

Jesus on consumption

Week Four, 2019

By Senator John Grant, Florida (Retired)

It is not good to eat much honey: so for men to search their own glory is not glory. Proverbs 25:27

The latter 20th century and on into the 21st has been marked by increased consumption and a society that turns wants into needs. Being subconsciously insulated from necessity and transforming more wants into needs hasn’t made us happier. And it certainly hasn’t made us stronger. We have instead a generation drifting into adulthood that has been reared with an entitled and false sense of both how much material comfort we need, and how easily it should come to them.

Credit cards, home equity loans and the like together with aggressive advertising that convinces you that you must have whatever they are hawking. The result has been an absolute disaster. A stunning 30 percent of American adults today are not creditworthy.

As a youngster, I toured the Smithsonian and saw the Hope Diamond, worth $350 million. I learned that it had an historical curse, which brought misfortune and tragedy to persons who owned it or wore it. It brought anything, but happiness.

A focus on acquiring “things” will never yield enough products to produce happiness. It invariably ends in grief and disappointment. Consumerism undermines our faith.

A consumption economy is at complete odds with God. No matter the amount of money, the amount of food, the amount of sex, the amount of entertainment, a consumer in a consumption economy will never be satisfied. God knows it is man’s nature that when material things are in abundant that people will turn away from Him.

Consumption is not necessarily bad. After all we need to consume basics in order to live. We need a house, but not a mansion. We need a car, but not a Rolls Royce. We assign value to ourselves and others based on the goods we purchase. One’s identity is now constructed by the clothes we wear, the vehicle we drive, and the music on our iPod. In short, we are what we consume.

Our identity should be on our spiritual focus….. on Jesus or what’s in our garage. Too many have switched from Lord to label and focus on self-glory and identity.

Where are you?

Choose to be happy!

SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

Results of a recent survey indicate that 51% of senior citizens take at least five different prescription drugs on a regular basis! In addition people take over the counter medications for aches, pains, headaches, digestive issues among others.

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Was George Washington a failure?

As Rick Newman points out in his book, Rebounders, the key to success is not a lack of failure but our response to it. Examples:

• George Washington “lost more battles than he won during the Revolutionary War.”

• Norman Vincent Peale’s wife rescued the manuscript of The Power of Positive Thinking from the trash after it had been rejected repeatedly by New York publishers; it became an all-time bestseller.

• A 1914 fire destroyed Thomas Edison’s manufacturing operations, but the sixty-seven-year-old rebuilt and modernized factories that revolutionized technology.

• A whole body of scientific research has shown that overcoming setbacks can make people stronger, smarter, and more durable.

• Those with positive attitudes about aging are 50 percent less likely to develop the disorder than less positive people

• Positive thinking is a beneficial exercise. Positive thinking about negative experiences is even more valuable.

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FACTS

Florida ranks No. 3 for the most student debt.

Only nine nations have a higher reported abortion rate than the U.S.

The world’s population is living longer and better than ever before. For instance, each day on average:

• 295,000 people gain access to electricity for the first time.

• 305,000 people are able to access clean drinking water for the first time.

• 620,000 people are able to get online for the first time.

• Only about 4 percent of children worldwide die by the age of five, down from 19 percent in 1960.

• Fewer than 10 percent of the world’s population live in extreme poverty, down from more than 50 percent in the 1950s.

Never before has such a large portion of humanity been literate, enjoyed a middle-class cushion, lived such long lives . . . or been confident their children would survive. Let’s hit pause on our fears and frustrations and share a nanosecond of celebration at this backdrop of progress.

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

Robots can’t take your job away if you are retired.

Do something today that your future self will thank you for.

Discipline is doing what you don’t want to do. Ken Whitten

When you worship The Lord with real passion, you will likely not be worried about where you are going for lunch! Dwight Short

God reserves the right to interrupt our world at will in order to accomplish His predetermined will. Ken Whitten

THE PASSWORD

Week Three, 2019

THE PASSWORD

By Florida Senator John Grant, retired

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

Passwords drive me crazy. I have various electronic devices with a myriad of applications, each having different password requirements. It is hard (and probably not wise) to have a universal password.

I get messages like, “Sorry but your password must contain an upper case letter, a number, a punctuation mark, a gang sign, an extinct animal and a hieroglyph. Finally I found a solution. I changed my password to “incorrect.” If I forget, I can write in anything and the screen will say “your password is incorrect.”

Passwords are important and often govern access to various places and things. They also verify the authenticity of the holder. I had a close friend, now deceased, who was a guard in combat during World War II. Penetration by the enemy of the perimeter was always a concern. Often the enemy would steal allied uniforms and try to sneak through. The guard would request a secret password and if the intruder could not correctly respond, the enemy was shot on sight.

Someone who had parachuted behind enemy lines during the invasion of Normandy once told me they were issued clickers and once on the ground if they saw anyone, they would click and if the click was not countered with a similar click they knew that the person was hostile and acted accordingly.

God has a password to get into heaven. His code is not some secret, obscure combination of letters and numbers; rather it is as simple as believing and confessing that Jesus is Lord and accepting that God raised him from the dead. Any other would-be heavenly password will leave us locked out. This password should be easy for us to put into our minds and souls, but for some of us it is a hard concept to grasp. We might want to be the lord of our own lives or think we can get into heaven on our own merits.

Often I go places where they have a Wi-Fi connection. To get in, I need the password, but once I put the password in my device, the whole Internet is open to me.

The same is true with God’s password. When we believe and confess Jesus as Lord, the gates of heaven are open to us. The benefit of knowing the code is not only for heaven. It also benefits us in this life: realizing that we are forgiven, having the assurance of God’s acceptance, and enjoying freedom from guilt.

Do you know the password?

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SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

Consider trying these habits for success:

▪ Waking up earlier. Adding an hour to your day by waking up an hour earlier can make you more conscientious and optimistic.

▪ Eating a healthy breakfast every day. This will give you the fuel your body needs for energy and help you keep focused during the day.

▪ Have a task that you are dreading on your to-do list? Getting it done first thing in the morning will help improve your productivity by saving yourself from stressing and agonizing over it all day.

▪ Exercising in your free time. An active body leads to an active mind. Make time to exercise whether it is in the morning, evening or on the weekends.

▪ Practicing an attitude of gratitude. Be less focused on what you may be missing and more focused on being in the present and enjoying the moment where you are.

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By 2025 machines could be working and performing 52% of office tasks – Time

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The 16th President of our country wrote powerful lessons for leaders.

1) Don’t let fear hold you back! Risk-taking is an essential element of success.

2) Realize that there is life after failure. If you fail, pick yourself up and try, try again.

3) Never write yourself off!

Just look at President Lincoln’s life.

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My First Computer

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The Barna group released a study that indicates up to 80% of church-goers do not participate in The Great Commission.

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

Don’t let too much of yesterday eat up your time today.

Sixty might be the new forty, but nine is the new midnight.

The Bible is the only book whose author is always present when one reads it.

Never let anyone who has done nothing tell you how to do anything.

“INCREDIBLE AND INCREDULOUS”

By the Reverend Almon Bartholomew

“INCREDIBLE AND INCREDULOUS”

Isaiah 7:14; 9:6-7 and Matthew 1:18-23

INTRODUCTION

These three passages of Scripture make some of the most remarkable statements ever penned or spoken. Seven hundred years before Christ’s appearance upon earth the prophet Isaiah gave specific details regarding the birth of Jesus. We have read both bookends—Isaiah’s and Matthew’s—the prophecy and the fulfillment! These are not chance happenings. These are the divine enactments of the Sovereign God. The promises of God by written or spoken word are kept. To such a faithful and true Father in Heaven we submit ourselves for time and for eternity.

THE FACTS

The two words given to the title of this message sound so much alike. In truth they are very different. They are “incredible” and “incredulous.” The word incredible suggests awesomeness, the reverence one sees, hears or feels when witnessing what appears to have been impossible take place in his very presence. The evidence is so irrefutable; one can’t help but accept it as fact, as done, accomplished. It is an overwhelming conviction of a happening beyond comprehension. Its reality erupts in astonishment, in amazement. It brings one into a state of wonder, an atmosphere of reverence. From this we can see the all conquering love of God as we sing “Amazing grace, how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me.”

The word incredulous brings one to another conclusion. The Webster’s dictionary defines this as the inability of a person to believe in spite of the empirical evidence. A person exposed to the same stimuli which stirs one to believe and he chooses rather to disbelieve. He may say, “This defies reason.” “This disregards natural law.” “This does not fit within my box.” “It rejects reality.” “It is anti intellectual.” “It is mystical and mythical.” “This nonsense must be debunked.”

One can readily see these two words are in a collision course. The conflict between these two comes to a climactic battle at the birth of Jesus Christ.

The prophesy in Isaiah that a virgin would conceive and bear a child appeared to be so illogical, so biologically impossible that critics would write it of as fiction, a fairy tale. It was incredulous. Yet, the prophecy was fulfilled as recorded in the Gospel of Matthew and its witnesses with utter astonishment said we have witnessed an incredible miracle. The war was on.

Let us draw an analogy:

Incredible Incredulous
Bright lights and angels to peasant shepherds Ludicrous yarn spun by dreaming shepherds
Baby born to a virgin
Write it off, impossible
King born in a stable
Kings are born in royal palaces
Rich men from east travel from far with gifts following star Herod got out prophecy to direct them, cruel plan to destroy
Wise men warned in a dream, took another way Herod thwarted, made new plan, kill all babies
Joseph warned by an angel. Went to Egypt Herod thwarted again
Jesus, wondrous healings: Crippled man healed and Religious leaders ask, who can forgive sins but God?
Man blind from birth also healed.
Accused of practicing medicine on the Sabbath.
Casts out demons Accused of being in league with Beelzebub
“No man ever spoke like this man.” Angry defiance from religious leaders, and feared loss of authority.
Wisdom
Confusion
Jesus said, “Peace be still.”Winds and water obeyed Him. Who is commanding nature to obey?
Jesus crucified Mission accomplished
Jesus rose again Evil defeated

There are any more comparisons for which you could make illustrations.

Among the titles given to Jesus in Isaiah, chapter nine, we find the first appellation; “Wonderful.” Some insist on linking this to the second, “Counselor.” In reality He is the “Wonderful Counselor.” However, His ability to elicit wonder stands sufficiently in its own right. Here, again He is so incredible at every level He becomes the object and the source out of which “wonder” emanates.

Let us look at it. People wondered at His birth. They wondered at His life. They wondered at His miracles. They wondered at His words, His works, His Wisdom. They wondered at His death and at His resurrection. And they will wonder at His return. He indeed is “Wonderful.” Again, this is the incredible, incomparable Christ. With Him, there is none to compare. It totally baffles the incredulity of Christ’s antagonists.

Conclusion:

What will it be for you, incredible or incredulous? Will you stand in awe and reverence, or stand in rejection and irrecoverable loss? Let us in light of the miracle of the Christmas season believe and live!

A message delivered by Almon M. Bartholomew, during his long ministry in New York State.

Grow Up

Week Two, 2019

GROW UP

By John Grant

When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 1 Cor 13:11

The word “adolescence,” derived from the Latin verb meaning “to grow up,” likely began to be widely used in the fifteenth century, and was meant to suggest the nearing of full maturity—not only biologically, but now also emotionally, financially, and in terms of character.”

In 1965 less than 10 percent of college students said they “never” attend any religious services, compared to nearly 30 percent today. The Pew Research Center’s Michael Lipka reported that about 35 percent of adult millennials (born between 1981 and 1996) identify as atheist, agnostic, or “nothing in particular.” “Far more Millennials say they have no religious affiliation.

Where have we gone wrong? There is definitely a trend and it is going the wrong way, decade by decade. It’s not only in spiritual matters, but more and more young people want to eat their dessert first.

Socrates said: “He who is not content with what he has, would not be content with what he would like to have.”

There are few more things more important we can do for our young than convince them that production is more satisfying than consumption. Indeed, a hallmark of virtuous adulthood is learning to find freedom in your work, rather than freedom from your work, even when your work hurts.

But more important than work, is spiritual development. We should spend more time being an example to young people in their spiritual development. We need to be an example to be holy, not a synonym for goody-goody time, but rather time set apart for sacred use.

As adults, we are called to lead children through maturing to spiritual maturity, but this calling goes farther than children. Our call is to all, for everyone is in some stage of spiritual adolescence, including ourselves.

We should all strive to grow in our spiritual maturity and lead by example for others to follow, both young and old.

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SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

How Adam got Eve

Nothing like a good Bible story to make your day. Adam was hanging around the garden of Eden feeling very lonely. So, God asked him, “What’s wrong with you?” Adam said he didn’t have anyone to talk to.

God said that He was going to make Adam a companion and that it would be a woman. He said, “This pretty lady will gather food for you, she will cook for you, and when you discover clothing, she will wash it for you. “She will always agree with every decision you make and she will not nag you, and will always be the first to admit she was wrong when you’ve had a disagreement. “She will praise you!

“She will bear your children, and never ask you to get up in the middle of the night to take care of them. “She will NEVER have a headache and will freely give you love and passion whenever you need it.”

Adam asked God, “What will a woman like this cost?” God replied, “An arm and a leg.” Then Adam asked, “What can I get for just a rib?”

And, of course the rest is history.

Evidently, Mac supports windows now.

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

The 16th President of our country wrote powerful lessons for leaders.

1) Don’t let fear hold you back! Risk-taking is an essential element of success.

2) Realize that there is life after failure. If you fail, pick yourself up and try, try again.

3) Never write yourself off!

Just look at President Lincoln’s life.

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It’s awful when I am singing a song and the artist gets all the words wrong.

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I haven’t lost my mind. Half just wandered and the other half went looking for it.

L.I.F.E.

Week One, 2019

L.I.F.E.

By John Grant

Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Matthew22:34-40

The first month of the year is the month of resolutions, most broken by the second month of the year. What are your resolutions? Maybe they are things like losing weight, getting in shape, reading a book a week, etc. How many, if any, of your resolutions deal with spiritual matters, like daily quiet time and Bible reading, discipling fellow believers, leading one lost person to Christ each month, etc.?

Perhaps you are thinking of honoring God with your generosity, but feel that your financial position lacks the ability to give much. Giving is important and a tithe is a tithe whether you make a million dollars a year or try to live on a minimum wage.

But there is more than money involved. The word “Lord” is the most common word in the Bible. Will it be the most common thought inyour mind as you live out the coming year?

We are admonished to keep our eyes fixed on Him. Hebrews 12:2 “Let us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, on whom our faith depends from beginning to end. He did not give up because of the cross! On the contrary, because of the joy that was waiting for him, he thought nothing of the disgrace of dying on the cross, and he is now seated at the right side of God’s throne.”

What will you give as you keep your focus on Him in this new year? Let me suggest the L.I.F.E acrostic.

  1. LABOR – God gives us a body to be used for Him. You may not be able to give a lot financially, but you can give your labor, in missions,constructions, walking your neighborhood and a lot more.

2. INFLUENCE – God gives us power and position and I refer not to just important people. You might exert your influence on the person in the cubicle next to you at work.

3. FINANCE – Share your financial resources. Got gives some much, some little but all enough to give.

4. EXPERTISE – Each of can do something well…. very well. What is your gift….. administrative, music, second language, etc.?

Take your life’s talent, recourses…… and give it all to Christ this coming year. I’m not a poker player, but I understand that when a player builds of a big war chest and feels he has a good hand, he pushes his entire resources and shoves them to the center of the table and says “I’m all in.”

How about you? Are you ready and willing to push all you have into the center of your life and say to God: “I’m all in?

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SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

Consider trying these habits for success:

• Waking up earlier. Adding an hour to your day by waking up an hour earlier can make you more conscientious and optimistic.

• Eating a healthy breakfast every day. This will give you the fuel your body needs for energy and help you keep focused during the day.

• Have a task that you are dreading on your to-do list? Getting it done first thing in the morning will help improve your productivity by saving yourself from stressing and agonizing over it all day.

• Exercising in your free time. An active body leads to an active mind. Make time to exercise whether it is in the morning, evening or on the weekends.

• Practicing an attitude of gratitude. Be less focused on what you may be missing and more focused on being in the present and enjoying the moment where you are.

• Taking time to reflect on your day, every day. Keep a journal of your thoughts, successes, failures and the lessons you have learned.Review your journal each weekend.

• Giving back to your community. Volunteer for causes and organizations you feel strongly about, and especially help those who are less fortunate than you are.

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The Barna group released a study that indicates up to 80% of church goers do not participate in The Great Commission.

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

Don’t let too much of yesterday eat up your time today.

Sixty might be the new forty, but nine is the new midnight.

The Bible is the only book whose author is always present when one read sit.

Never let anyone who has done nothing tell you how to do anything.

God reserves the right to interrupt our world at will in order to accomplish His predetermined will. Ken Whitten

“GOODBYE, FAREWELL & AMEN”

GOODBYE, FAREWELL & AMEN” (2 Cor. 13:11-14)

RETIREMENT MESSAGE

FBC Earlville, N.Y. December 30, 2018 10:30 AM

Rev. Jeremy B. Stopford, Pastor

TODAY’S “SPECIAL”: “The Doctor Funny”

A patient went to the Doctor and asked him to check his leg.

 “Something’swrong. Just put your ear up to my thigh, you’ll hear it!”

The doctor cautiously places his ear to the man’s thigh only to hear, “Giveme $10! I’m desperate! I need $10!”

“I’ve never seen or heard anything like this before! How long has this been going on?”the doctor asked.

“That’s nothing, Doc. Put your ear to my knee.”

The doctor put his ear to the man’s knee and heard it say, “Please! I really need$5! Just $5! Please! I’m desperate!”

“Sir, I really don’t know what to tell you. I’ve never seen anything like this.”The doctor was truly dumbfounded.

“Wait, Doc, that’s not all of it. There’s more. Just put your ear down on my ankle,”the man urged him.

The doctor did as the man said and was amazed to hear his ankle plead, “Please, I just need $20! Please lend me $20, please! I am really desperate!”

“I have no idea what to tell you,” the doctor said. “There’s nothing about it in any of my books,” he said as he frantically searched all his medical reference books. “However… I can make a well-educated guess.

Based on life and all my previous experiences, I can tell you with some certainty, that your leg seems to be broke in three places.

INTRODUCTION

Last Wednesday, quarterback Tom Brady of the (cough cough) New England Patriots was asked to comment on his 19 year career. His words were carefully chosen and interesting:

“I’ve been able to be in a career for 19 years that I love,” Brady said. “And I wake up every day excited to go to work. And I wake up every day fulfilled with what I’m doing. I don’t think there’s any greater gift in my life than to have that. Along with that has come a lot of other very cool opportunities, but in my heart and soul, I love playing the sport of football. And it’s brought me so much joy in my life.”

Then he went on to say, “It tests you in so many ways. I’ve been dealing with it fora long time. There’s anxiousness and nerves, and there’s joy and happiness, there’s disappointment and frustration. The emotions run the gamut. But if you can stay and build your mental toughness, it has just been incredibly rewarding. And I’m a very, very lucky man.”

This MOST LIKELY will be the last sermon that I ever preach as a pastor; it may be the last sermon that I EVER preach. And if it is, I hope I can apply what Mr. Brady did: I’ve been able to be in a career – a calling if you will – for 30 years that I love – and I wake up every day excited to go to work.

But if it really IS my last sermon, I couldn’t find a better text to preach from than the one before us – perhaps the last words given by the Apostle Paul to the church in Corinth.

The church at Corinth had a good history. It had a great foundation, much like First Baptist Earlville. Its people loved the Lord Jesus as Savior and Lord. They were encouraged by many servants of the Lord over its history to stay true to the foundation they enjoyed in Christ. And through its many trials – both without and within – it was challenged to remember its roots, its firm foundation, and to build upon the foundation of the Rock – even the Lord.

With that background, let’s look at what Paul said to them – and in turn,what I am privileged to say to y’all this morning. PRAYER

Paul’s message revolves around 3 key themes:

1. BE GROWING: match on the outside God’s operation inside! (v. 11)

Paul begins his farewell to the people in Corinth by reminding them that their whole being is like a car. Huh? Well, let me illustrate: a friend shared with me the story of a phone call he received from his adult grand-daughter. It seems that her new car had blown its engine. My friend, who is a retired life-long mechanic, lovingly asked her, “how often did you check the oil?”. To which his grand-daughter replied,“check what?”. I hope that illustration makes sense to you. If we who own vehicles don’t regularly check the engine oil, or listen carefully to noises that just don’t sound right, it shouldn’t surprise us when one day we are besides the road, 20 degrees below zero, 40 feet of snow, and going nowhere. Oh, and the battery of our phone is dead, too. Hmm.

All that to say this: the church is like a well-cared for car engine. Paul says to“aim for perfection” – that means to be mature! Pay attention to the details. So let me ask you: do you love the Lord Jesus as your Savior and Lord? IF SO, how is your walk with the Lord? Are you taking care of your spiritual engine? Are you in prayer? Are you reading the Bible in a still moment of your day? Yes, it is possible to have still moments in your day, if you seek them FIRST.

Paul says “listen to my appeal – be of one mind, live in peace.” The Message says, “Think in harmony. Be agreeable.” This is under the umbrella of “be growing”. What does it mean? Well, think of two neighbors, both of whom went to the same church. One day, one of the neighbors stopped coming to church. In fact, she started attending a church on the other side of the valley. The wise young pastor went to her and said, “hey – you are missed at our church. How come you aren’t coming?” Do you know what she said? She said that her neighbor across the street thinks her kids are better than my kids. That is what she told me. So rather than bother her and confront her, I am going elsewhere.” The wise young pastor went to the first neighbor and said, “hey, isn’t it something that Mrs. Jones and her family no longer come to church – in fact, they’re going to the church on the other side of the valley.” And do you know what that first neighbor replied to him? She said, “I have NO IDEA why she stopped coming.”

Paul said, “think in harmony. Be agreeable.” That means that in order to be a growing church – unlike the situation with Mrs. Jones and her neighbor – differences should be current. They should be settled as soon as possible, in order for the Lord’s growing hand to be uponHis church.

And note that it is the God of love and peace that is overseeing His church. He just doesn’t leave His people alone to build His church. Jesus said, “I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH – and the gates of hell will not prevail against it.”

But if the church presumes that it will always be a mature people, then, well, one day you’ll start hearing the noises, smell the smoke, and the engine will be dead. Oh, the church will still be open, it will be doing all the things it usually does, but it will not have any life. It will be going through the motions. The joy will be gone. It will be a dead church.

Be growing.

2. BE REMINDED: that saints are everywhere! (vs. 12-13)

Paul says, “greet one another with a holy kiss.” OK. Let’s go on to the next point. I can see it now. When I ever am invited back, Carl the organist, now age 75 or so, will tell me, “we listened to what you said in your closing message. Look and see!” And I’ll walk into the auditorium and see a wide Jumbotron screen over the pulpit. And sometime during the service the words “Kiss Cam” will appear, and the TV camera will zero in on couples – or even non-couples – to see if they will kiss. I can see it now.

It is interesting how other translations word this command of Paul. The New Living Translation says, “Greet each other with a sacred kiss.” But I think The Message gives Paul’s intent: “Greet one another with a holy embrace.” There are some that may forget the word “holy” and remember only the word “kiss”.

Perhaps I should leave that alone.

OR perhaps Paul intended that action to be closely connected with the next line: “all the saints send their greetings.” What does that mean?

ILLUSTRATION: Have you ever gone on vacation and visited another church in another state? What did you find? You tried to compare how they do things with how we do things. And then? You came to the overwhelming realization that the people there are just like us! In fact, they were quite interested to hear what church is like back home! Why? Because God has wisely planted churches and people just like us all over the world! Why? Because He wants us to see people as He sees them!

So – the “holy embrace” is to be first of all “holy”, and not necessarily a wet smooch. It may be even a handshake or a squeeze of the shoulder to let you know – hey, we are one in Christ. There are saints everywhere!

Be reminded.

3. BE AWED: the Trinity sees you! (v. 14)

Finally, Paul ends his farewell greeting with a benediction. This should keep the church in Corinth in awe of Who God is and what He is eternally doing on their behalf. The Son? He displays grace – God’s kindness at His expense! The cross is always before Him, and He wants His grace to be always before His children. The Father? He displays love. The Bible says that He has loved us with an everlasting love. That means that the church should first of all look at each other and then at the mission field the Good Lord has given her through the eyes of His love. And the Spirit? The Holy Spirit loves fellowship. When the church doors are open, He is there. Why, wherever the church is, He is there. He just loves to be with those Who love the Lord Jesus.Fellowship.

Be awed. May we never lose that sense of awe of the Lord’s presence in our lives and in our church.

CONCLUSION

“Goodbye, Farewell& Amen” – the title of the 11th season and the 16th episode of “MASH” – still the most widely watched episode in the history of television. For me, Season 30, Episode 52. Maybe not the most widely watched sermon in the history of Christianity.

But before I’m done this morning, there are 3 things I want you to remember:

FIRST, there are 900 people (or so) in the Village of Earlville – plus those in the surrounding areas. And there are only 2 churches in Earlville to meet the eternal needs of those people. That task is always before us. We’ve done well these past years. Don’t forget that God’s heart is for those 900 people, just as He showed each of us His heart for us at Calvary.

SECOND, our Verse for 2018, from Psalm 71:18, centers on the next generation. Your task, my task is never done. It is ever with a vision that the NEXT generation loves the Lord Jesus and walks with Him with the same privileges and graces that each of us have enjoyed.

Finally, THIRD,do you remember the contest in my early days here? We were to come upwith a theme, a catch phrase, a motto if you will, that best represents God’s heart and the personality of His heart at work in our fellowship. “Inviting and Accepting.” That is a foundational theme: we invite people to come just as they are to the Cross, because that is how the Lord Jesus invited each of us. And we accept people as they are – why? Because, as Paul says elsewhere,“such were some of you -But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.”

And OUR work here may have ended in the pulpit, but it has not ended in prayer. The prophet Samuel said that was his mission for God’s people, Israel. Please remember this: somewhere in this world, especially on Sunday morning around 7:30 am, by God’s grace there will be someone who will be praying for the First Baptist Church and Society of Earlville – and for each of the people that the Lord has brought through our doors in the past 10 plus years.

Who will join us in this eternal mission?

Close in prayer!

Compassion

WeekFifty-Two, 2018

COMPASSION

By John Grant

Recently America lost a great man… President George H. W. Bush. He was known by his care and compassion for others. When he was inaugurated, his inauguration speech called for a kinder and gentler nation. That should be a calling for each of us in this New Year. Find a place or person and minister to their needs.

“Preach the Gospel at all times. When necessary, use words.” This is,perhaps, the best known and most commonly quoted statement made by St. Francis of Assisi. Ministry is not always the words you say, but the help and compassion you show.

In 2019, find a nitch and fill it. It may be a humongous project you undertake with others, or it may be a one on one you do alone. Heidi Berkman noticed when she visited nursing homes and similar facilities that they were rather stark. One day she was shopping and saw an employee throwing out beautiful flowers. She inquired as to why and was told that the store only keeps them for two days. She sought the manager and asked if she could have the throw outs to share with the elderly. He said yes and The Bloom Project was born.

The Bloom Project

Compassionate Woman

The project started in Heidi’s garage, beginning with a few flowers and a few volunteers who wanted to create something special — bringing beauty and joy to those in end-of-life care. Many had experienced the loss of a loved one in hospice care, and recognized that they could make use of resources (flowers) that would otherwise be tossed out.

 In this modern society’s Christians struggle with their role in shaping a society that cares for those who are sick and in need. In essence, we have struggled to understand the work and responsibility of Christian compassion. Should this responsibility be shared by all and secured by the government, or should it primarily be the domain of people of faith and those moved by a higher calling to mercy and healing? I suggest the latter, but saying it and doing are two different matters.

What are you called to minister to the community around you? Make a resolution in the coming year to show compassion and Christian love and help this land become a kinder and gentler country.

 God bless and mayyou and yours have a most happy and blessed 2019

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SOMETIMES TRUE STORIES

One evening, after the honeymoon, Dick was working on his Harley in the garage. His new wife was standing there by the bench watching him.

After a long period of silence she finally said, “Honey, I’ve just been thinking,now that we’re married, maybe it’s time you quit spending so much of your time out here in your garage. You probably should consider selling your Harley and all that welding equipment; they take up so much of your time. And that gun collection and fishing gear, they just take up so much space. And you know the boat is such an ongoing expense; and you hardly use it. I also think you should lose all those stupid model airplanes and your home brewing equipment and what’s the use of that vintage hot rod?

Dick got a horrified look on his face. She noticed and said, “Darling, what’s wrong?”He replied, “You were starting to sound like my ex-wife.” “Ex-wife!?” she shouted, “YOU NEVER TOLD ME YOU WERE MARRIED BEFORE!” Dick replied, “I wasn’t.”

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To think we are looking at images from the surface of another planet in our solar system from our cell phone!!! And yet we haven’t found a way to get the gospel to everyone on earth in their own language yet? Someone PLEASE tell me why?

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A man on a ladder says, “This is my step-ladder. I don’t know where my real ladder is.”

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A lady took her pet duck to the duck vet, thinking it was deceased. The vet agreed, but the lady asked him to make sure, so the vet brought in a cat who looked closely and shook its head in the negative. She asked for one more test, so the vet brought in a lab who looked, smelled and shook his head likewise. Satisfied that her duck was dead, she asked for a bill. It read $450. Shocked she asked why the vet charged so much. He responded that he didn’t charge anything, but the charges were for the “cat scan” and the “lab report.”

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

Learning starts on the first day of life, not on the first day of school. Dana Suskind

Are you leaning on a shovel and praying for a hole? Are you talk or action? Cary Gaylord

The Gospel Is an Invitation, Not an Application – Ken Whitten

It’s nice to go into a legal battle when you have the Creator of the Universe as your confidant. Dwight Short

When you realize that your mind has wandered away from Jesus, don’t be alarmed or surprised. You live in a world that has been rigged to distract you. Each time you plow your way through the massive distractions to communicate with Him, you achieve a victory. Rejoice in these tiny triumphs, and they will increasingly light up your days.

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