“‘GOD WON’T GIVE ME MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE.’ REALLY?”

“‘GOD WON’T GIVE ME MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE’ – REALLY?” (James 1:9-18)

J.B. Stopford, Pastor, First Baptist Church, Earlville, NY

TODAY’S SPECIAL: “A Goat Funny”
Patient: Doctor, Doctor! I keep thinking I’m a goat!
Doctor: How long have you had this feeling?
Patient: Ever since I was a kid.

INTRODUCTION
(1) Written to “brothers/sisters” in the Lord – the letter was not written to a specific church but to God’s people, encouraging us how to live for God where He has wisely placed us.
(2) Written to spur contentment (vs. 9-11) – God calls both rich and poor for His glory. James begins here a repeated theme: life is brief, no matter how many years, no matter seeming success or failure.
What will we do with that breath of life God has given to us? In this section we continue the examination of “The Test of Faith”. We have looked at those “3 little words” (“count it all joy”!). Today we are going to look at…PAIN – through the eyes of 3 questions posed in our text. PRAYER

#1 The question of the heart: heart of the test is the fruit (v. 12)
We examined this verse several weeks ago when talking about the “crowns”. Let’s look at the companion passage, Rev. 2:11. The heart of this test in James is to see life through the eyes of eternity, not through the test!

#2 The question of the test (vs. 13-15)
(a). The Lord is not the source of this test! (v. 13). Nor can we say, “the devil made me do it!” as Flip Wilson used to say.
(b) The source of this test is one word: “desire”, which desire is further described with the previous word, “evil”. What on earth is “evil desire”?
Oswald Chambers, whose writings were transcribed by his wife and collected to form the wonderful devotional, “My Utmost for His Highest”, defines “desire” this way: “the need for companionship being met by loving only yourself.” (repeat!).
For Whom/whom have we been created for companionship? At least 2 answers: (1) The Lord (Gen. 3:8-9 shows that, as describing the fall, God was looking for the one with whom He had been enjoying sweet communion. And 1 John 1:5-7 God still hungers for our fellowship – with Him through His Word and prayer! How you doing here? (2) Others Gen. 2:19-29 shows that Adam could not find true companionship with the animals – God then created from him a wife with whom Adam could be “one flesh”. Again in 1 John 1:1-4 joy is made complete when believers enjoy fellowship with one another on a regular basis!  BUT when the “desire” for that companionship – either with the Lord, with one’s spouse, or with other believers – is directed elsewhere, the chain of events of James 1:13-15 becomes a royal test.
And what is the end of that test? DEATH (v. 15) – separation from the true companionship that God has provided. That death may be eternal – a physical death. OR it also may be being “dead while alive” – the life becomes routine, useless, and most empty.
Are you at this point today? Remember 1 John 1:9. Come back to where you left off – come back to the cross!

#3. The question of the source of the pain (vs. 16-18)
(a). Here is a tough question! What then is the source of the pain we often have on a regular basis? Once again, Oswald Chambers asks an interesting question: if you were God, would you create pain? Does pain have eternal purpose? Our text says that through our faith in the cross, we have both a new birth and we become His first-fruits – even in pain!
(b). So then how does God use pain for His glory? We need to be familiar with at least 3 passages:
(1). Psalm 11. The Lord allows tests to show that there is a wide distinction between those who are righteous and those who are wicked – with no foundation!
(2). Psalm 26:1-3. Those who are trusting in the Lord can lovingly say to God, “bring it on! Prove me! Show me by your test that I belong to you!”
(3). 1 Corinthians 10:13. Perhaps the most familiar of the 3. This verse has been translated loosely, “God won’t give me more than I can handle” – why? Because what I am experiencing is no different from what anyone else on this earth does – but with one HUGE DIFFERENCE: God is allowing this test to draw attention to Himself through us, through you and me. Cling to this verse – it’s a good one.

CONCLUSION
A number of years ago there was a young man named Rick. He had a wonderful wife, young daughter, good job. Everything was going so well with him – he just loved his family and loved to provide for them. But then the unthinkable happened, and the source of his loss of physical strength was ultimately given a name: non-hodgkins lymphoma. Over the course of many months he had many treatments of various kinds. Yet in the hospital, with seemingly “much time” on his hands, he realized that there was one thing he didn’t have: assurance of eternity. He asked for his pastor to call him – and in a tender conversation on the phone, Rick trusted Jesus Christ as his personal Lord and Savior. Finally, it became apparent that his time on earth would be brief. Yet both in life and in death, this test for Rick became a royal tribute to God’s glory on display.
That is the extreme test – yours maybe simply a splinter in your finger or a hangnail on your toe.

Ask yourself one question: in Whom is my trust? With my foundation, am I prepared to trust Him?

FINDING JESUS

Week Twenty-Two, 2017

FINDING JESUS

He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. – Mark 16:15.

A friend related how she had boarded a plane and saw a large group all wearing shirts that said “taking Jesus to Costa Rica.” She stopped and pondered with the thought of wasn’t Jesus already in Costa Rica?

The point is that Jesus is everywhere and we don’t have to take Him anywhere, but we called to a ministry of connection. We are called to awaken the sleeping and connect all people to the presence of Jesus right where they are planted.

We have to go to where people are, knowing that Jesus is already there. Jesus did not say that the whole world should go to church; He said the church should go into the whole world.

Paul makes it clear that it is not enough just to love and care for people; we are called to communicate the life-changing message of Jesus Christ. No matter what our personal style, we all should be trained and ready to express the core message of the gospel, and we should know how to lead people to commit their lives to Jesus Christ.

Declaring the Gospel is a job given to every Christian, but we can hardly preach the good news of Jesus Christ if we do not know any unbelievers. How many non-Christians do you know? If you do not have any contact with non-Christians, look for an opportunity to make contact with a neighbor, co-worker, or someone else.

Our witness should be both passionate and personal. Paul said it so well (Philippians 3:8): I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ

We should give ourselves daily to ministering to the lost, the rescuing power of the Gospel of Jesus. This week let us all share the Gospel with at least one person who does not know the Savior.

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

Oh, the hands of Jesus. Hands of incarnation at his birth. Hands of liberation as he healed. Hands of inspiration as he taught. Hands of dedication as he served. And hands of salvation as he died.

Will Rogers once said, “Half our life is spent trying to find something to do with the time we have rushed through life trying to save.”

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The Destination

It is a common thing for Christians to say –

Jesus is my source.”

What a powerful declaration! To say “Jesus is my source” is to make a statement of faith and also a statement of dependence. As such, it is not only a great witness but it is an enduring fact.

Recently I was thinking that, yes, Jesus is my source. All good things flow to me from Him and the Father. They bless me in my daily life. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, they lead me forward, into the paths that I should walk. Through their loving attention, all my needs, physical and spiritual, are met every day.

While I am here, while I am bound to this Earth, it is only reasonable that much of my focus on Jesus would center on Him as my source. My source is important in this needy place. My worldly supply line is tenuous indeed, but He is able and willing and generous and dependable – and He loves me. Praise His name.

Oh, but then I saw there is another dimension. Yes, Jesus is my source, but He is also my destination!

It is Jesus to whom I will go.

At last I will end this temporary stay on Earth and enter into that eternal kingdom that is His.

It is Jesus and the Father whom I will join in Heaven. They are the ones to whom the journey on this Earth leads. They are my destination. They are where I am going.

How wonderful that will be:

To be in the company of my Creator,

To be welcomed there,

To be savored as a friend forever.

Jesus is not only my source, but my ultimate companion.

Forever!

Then I thought still further. There is another way in which Jesus is my destination.

This way makes it evident that I am savored as a friend. It makes me to be, at last, in the full spiritual likeness of Jesus. It erases the last vestige of the worldly nature that besets all mankind. It is an eternal transformation.

It is explained in 1 John 3:2 –

Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we SHALL BE LIKE HIM; for we shall see him as he is.”

Matthew Henry says about this passage:

The sons of God will be known and be made manifest by their likeness to their head: They shall be like him —like him in honour, and power, and glory. Their vile bodies shall be made like his glorious body; they shall be filled with life, light, and bliss from him. When he, who is their life, shall appear, they also shall appear with him in glory.”

In that day, we shall not only be WITH Him but we shall be LIKE Him,

“In honor, and power, and glory.”

“Filled with life, light, and bliss”

This is my destination. This is where I am going.

The message through John goes on from here to encourage us to purify ourselves as thoroughly as we can while we await that day. But on that day, all shall be accomplished.

Our destination is to be like Jesus.

No longer will the challenges of life scheme to lead us astray.

No longer will shadows of doubt cloud our faith.

No longer will our wonderfully made but sin hindered bodies cry out in pain and discomfort and fear.

No longer will we be, along with Adam, merely able not to sin, but we shall be, along with Jesus, not able to sin.

No longer will scars of battle and the wear of life be seen upon us.

Only the likeness of Jesus will glow.

Oh, glorious day !

And so, as we travel our sometimes painful and challenging road of life, meeting each struggle in prayer in the powerful name of Jesus, with our eyes fixed on our ultimate destination,

LET US REJOICE !

We Shall Be Like HIM

05/17

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IMPACT

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Week Twenty-One, 2017

IMPACT

As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace. – 1 Peter 4:10

He died at age 94, after a long and fruitful life, a life that deeply impacted me. Though we were not close, our lives often intersected. I well remember the last email I got from him, one of friendship and encouragement.

His death caused me to ponder the many ways he had impacted my life, while I also thought about just who were the top ten of impacting people in my life. I thought about how my career, my walk with the Lord and achievements I made in life were the direct result of the impact with others.

It has been said that we are the products of the books we have read, the places we have been and the people we have met. How true.

I encourage those reading this devotion to pause and remember those who have impacted your life. But more importantly, take time to consider those lives you have impacted and those you can impact in the future.

Do you want to make an impression with your life, or an impact?” That question touches every area of our lives. It is searching, pointed, pertinent, and powerful.

R.G. Lee said, “When our garments have been moth eaten, when our photograph has faded, when our house has been pulled down, when our grave has sunk as level as the road, our subtle image will remain among men, in blackness or beauty, influencing posterity. Our physical life is a span, our moral life is millennial.”

Making an impact or an impression is a heart issue. If God has your heart you aren’t seeking to impress others, but you desire for Jesus to impact the world around you through you.

Each day our lives intersect with many others. With each one we should ask how we could positively impact each life. If may be something that takes a fleeting moment or it may be someone you can invest your life in. You will never know all of the lives you impact, so we should endeavor to make a positive impact on each life that comes across our path.

I am a better person because of those who have positively impacted my life and God calls me to similarly invest me life in others.

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QUOTES YOU CAN USE

Neutrality is not an option when It comes to Jesus.
God created you and me for a relationship with Himself.
You’ll never find the right purpose until you have the right person. Ken Whitten

You never put your foot twice in the same river, because the water has moved downstream. Bob Buford

Significance is a calling to be part of a cause greater than yourself.

Money often costs too much. Ralph Waldo Emerson

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REMEMBER THESE 3 LITTLE WORDS

First Baptist Church, 9 West Main St. Earlville, NY 13332

“REMEMBER THESE 3 LITTLE WORDS” (James 1:2-8)
Series: JAMES, May 14, 2017 10:30 AM
Rev. Jeremy B. Stopford, Pastor

INTRODUCTION
“Today’s Special” #1 – Karyn’s Dad’s Joke: The physics teacher and the calculus teacher dated without success. They had no chemistry between them.

“Today’s Special” #2: You Know You’re a Mother IF…
~ You automatically double-knot everything you tie.
~ You hear a baby cry in the grocery store, and you start to gently sway back and forth, back and forth. However, your children are at school!
~ You actually start to like the smell of strained carrots mixed with applesauce.
~ You get soooo into crafts you contemplate writing a book called “101 Fun Crafts To Do with Dryer Lint and Eggshells.”
~ You spend a half hour searching for your sunglasses only to have your teenager say, “Mom, why don’t you wear the ones you pushed up on your head?”
~ You are out for a nice romantic meal with your husband, enjoying some real adult conversation, when suddenly you realize that you’ve reached over and started to cut up his steak.

Last week we began our new series in the Book of James. We learned an important point: the book of James is about a choice – do we live for Jesus as if we are Homeward Bound people, or do we live for the world and don’t make a difference with the brief life God has given us? This is believed to be the first written of the NT books -and it is pure practical theology! PRAYER

#1 The Growth-Life (vs. 2-4) Revolves around your choices:
a. “Pure joy” – just 3 little words tell God’s secret to spiritual growth
“Pure” = “all”; “full of”; “an opportunity for great joy” (NLT)
b. “Consider” = welcome! Phillips says, “don’t resent them [trials] as intruders, but welcome them as friends!”
c. “Trials” – those “tests and challenges [which] come at you from all sides” [Message]. Those cause your faith to show its true colors!
Illustration: Perhaps you saw this on our beloved Facebook this week:
From a CBS News Documentary, the words of Charleton Churchill: “Saying this was an epic and amazing trip is true. But I would be remiss if I didn’t share, it came with some suffering, doubt, fear, anxiety, and physical pain. Often times when striving for something great, there is usually a cost. There’s no glory without suffering.” The glory: a wedding! The trial: the location, which was the summit of Mt. Everest! And his job? He bills himself as an “Adventure Wedding Photographer”.
But your trials are not the uncertainties of the base camp of Mt. Everest! Your trials are, well, LIFE!
d. Progress of faith to maturity: the mindset [3 little words: “count it pure joy”], the test/trial of faith, the experience which develops perseverance, and the perseverance develops maturity. See Matthew 5:48 “be perfect [mature, complete] as your Heavenly Father is perfect”. See 1 Cor. 3:1ff “I could not address you as spiritual but as worldly – mere infants in Christ. I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it.” It’s possible to belong to Christ, to be a Christian, to be saved, but be immature. And trials are often the test to show outwardly what’s going on inwardly.
The “Growth-Life” revolves around those 3 little words, “count it pure joy”

“WAIT, PASTOR! That’s FOUR words!” Almost 30 years ago, my wife’s cousin’s family and us went camping for a week. During the Sunday of that week, we went to church where the guest speaker spoke on this passage. Repeatedly, he said, “now, just remember these 3 little words: count it all joy.” By the end of the sermon, the kids had all they could do to hold in their laughter. Yet almost 30 years later, that message is still remembered by our family members who heard it! Let’s remember these 3 little words – from our NIV: “count it pure joy”.

#2 The Grace-Life (vs. 5-8)
How do you know you lack wisdom? You might say: “I don’t know how I can do this!” Or, “I don’t know how I have the time!” Or, “I CAN’T DO THIS!” The Grace-Life revolves around 3 thoughts:
a. God is generous – He loves to hear from His children, OFTEN!
b. The prayer of faith stems from a relationship of trust: no doubts in God nor in His ability to do what He says He can!
c. The grace-life lives as if each day is dependent upon the wisdom of God and not upon the wiles of God’s child.
Illustration: the summer breezy day sail in the sunfish, and then there’s the day when the wind takes you to the other end of the lake. That is the life not lived in grace but in self-will. Wind swept. Can’t get back without retracing many steps. [sailing upwind can be done, but it is easier not to!].

CONCLUSION
Remember the growth-life. God hungers for mature children! Where are you today? Have you remembered those 3 little words: count it pure joy!
Remember the grace-life. God hungers for seeking children! Where are you today? Have you remembered to trust, to rest in the One Who brought you to the cross in the first place? Trust! Intimate trust! Hunger for that just as He hungers for that in us!

The End of the Story

Week Twenty, 2017

THE END OF THE STORY, by John Grant

Says, “Yes, I am coming again soon.” Amen. Come Lord Jesus. – Rev 22:20

A good novelist works to keep the reader in suspense until the very last page of the book. I recently finished reading a book that kept me in suspense until the very last page. As I was reading I kept changing my mind as to the final outcome, but never thought of the way it turned out.

Contrast that with the Bible, which tells the end of the story from the very beginning and throughout the entire sixty-six chapters. While people throughout the ages have speculated when Christ will return, the Bible tells us clearly that He will return.

Here are a couple of the many verses that tell of the end of the story:

Philippians 3:20 But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

Colossians 3:4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then, you also will appear with him in glory.

1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord.

These facts from biblical prophecy about Christ’s return may surprise you:
• One out of every 30 verses in the Bible mentions the subject of Christ’s return or the end of time.
• Of the 216 chapters in the New Testament, there are well over 300 references to the return of Christ.
• 23 of the 27 New Testament books mention Christ’s return.
• In the Old Testament, such well-known and reliable men of God as Job, Moses, David, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Daniel, as well as most of the minor prophets mention Christ’s return in their writings.
• Christ often spoke specifically about His own return to earth.
• Throughout the centuries, Christ’s disciples and followers have adamantly believed, written, and taught that Christ would someday return to earth. The Bible teaches it. The Lord stood upon its truths. The apostles declared it and wrote about it. The creeds include it and affirm it.

In the Bible, the end of the story is clear throughout the Bible. The end is clear and there is no room for suspense. He is coming again and that’s a fact.
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“HOME, JAMES”

“HOME, JAMES ” (James 1:1 -Introduction to ‘James’ Series)

Message delivered May 8, 2017  by Rev. Jeremy B. Stopford, Pastor, First Baptist Church, Earlville, New York

“Today’s Special”: A Cow Funny
A farmer had been swindled several times by the local car dealer. One day, the car dealer informed the farmer that he was coming over to purchase a cow. The farmer priced his unit as follows:

Basic cow $499.95, plus Shipping and handling 35.75
Extra stomach 79.25
Two-tone exterior 142.10
Produce storage compartment 126.50
Heavy duty straw chopper 189.60
Four spigot/high output drain system 149.20
Automatic fly swatter 88.50
Genuine cowhide upholstery 179.90
Deluxe dual horns 59.25
Automatic fertilizer attachment 339.40
4 x 4 traction drive assembly 884.16
Pre-delivery wash and comb 69.80

FARMERS SUGGESTED LIST PRICE: $2843.36
Additional dealer adjustments: 300.00

TOTAL LIST PRICE (including options): $3143.36

INTRODUCTION
“Home, James” is a famous saying – but originally that was not the entire saying. Can’t you hear the one saying it, desiring that someone named “James” take him home? Tradition has it that in the 1840’s, Queen Victoria of England would often be chauffeured around London. And when she was ready to head back to Buckingham Palace, she would address her chauffeur by saying, “Home” and then his last name. But the chauffeur at this time was a fellow named “James Darling”. So rather than cause a public display, she simply – and wisely – said, “Home, James”. Some reports say the entire saying was “Home, James, and don’t spare the horses”. A movie line says, “Once around the park and home, James”.

So we begin a new series of messages in the book of James. Have you read the entire book yet? 15 minutes is all it takes a slow reader like me! And “Home, James” is an appropriate title for today’s introductory lesson, as well as for the series. For the book of James is about a choice – do we live for Jesus as if we are Homeward Bound people, or do we live for the world and don’t make a difference with the brief life God has given us?

#1. WHO JAMES WAS NOT
a. James, the brother of John (Matthew 10:1-4). What do we know about him?
(1). He was the son of Zebedee (Matt. 4:18-22) who, along with John, left their nets to follow Jesus
(2). He, along with his brother John, was given by Jesus the name “Boanerges”, which means “sons of thunder” – perhaps showing their violent personalities!
(3). He was part of the “inner circle” of ministry with Jesus, along with Peter and John
(4) Most importantly, he was “sold out” for Jesus. Along with John, he desired to sit at Jesus side in His kingdom. Jesus said that those positions were only for those who were willing to “drink the cup He was going to drink, and to be baptized with the baptism He was going to be baptized with.” (Mark 10:38ff). They both were willing to do that. And were they? John ultimately was exiled to the Isle of Patmos where he wrote the Book of Revelation.
(5). And James? Could he have been the author of this book? Look at Acts 12:1-3. This James – the brother of John – was put to death on the order of King Herod. So, no, this could not be the author.
b. James, son of Alphaeus (Matthew 10:1-4) – the list of the first apostles is the only mention of this “James”. He is never identified again outside of the gospels.

#2 SO, WHO JAMES WAS!
It has been important to eliminate the choices as to the author of this book. We are left with one more James, and we are left with both a Biblical help and an historical insight:
a. Biblical help
(1). An half-brother to Jesus. (Matt. 13:53-56) – wouldn’t you like to study a book written by someone who grew up with our Savior?
(2). An unbelieving brother. (John 7:1-5) – wouldn’t you like to study a book written by someone who struggled with faith in Christ?
(3). An eyewitness to Jesus’ resurrection (1 Cor. 15:1-7) – wouldn’t you like to study a book written by someone who saw the resurrected Christ?
(4). An elder in the early church in Jerusalem. (Acts 15:12-21) – wouldn’t you like to study a book written by someone who became a church leader?
b. Extra-Biblical help
Tradition says that the elder James was known to be a prayer warrior. His knees were hard and calloused like camel’s knees. I’ve never seen camels’ knees, so I’m trusting my research on that one! And tradition says that before the destruction of Jerusalem in 70ad, Annas the High Priest brought him before the Sanhedrin, the ruling council in Jerusalem, and required him to recant his faith in Christ. He refused to deny Christ. He then was taken to the peak of the temple, the same place Jesus was taken by Satan. Again, he refused to deny Jesus. He then was thrown off the temple – and with his dying breath, on the ground once again he refused to deny his faith in the risen Savior – even to his death.

CONCLUSION
This book may bring you at the crossroads of your faith. You say you trust in the Lord Jesus as your Savior. That’s great! James will meet us there and give us the Christian behavior expected and the behavior not expected.
And then, in essence, he will ask each of us, “what are you going to do?”.
Let’s prayerfully look to God and commit each of us to Him for His using this book in our lives, for His glory in a most fresh and refreshing way!

Note from the website host, Frank Becker: “Today’s Funny” obviously needs work. Like most of our readers, I’ve never met a crooked car dealer, but I’ve had really bad luck buying second-hand cows, especially from farmers in two-tone shoes who are named James!

“THIS IS A TEST!”